visits are getting me down
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Morrigan
kaz
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visits are getting me down
hi everyone. i feel a bit awkward saying this but my fella has been away now for just over 4 years.
i used to love going seeing him but lately i cant be bothered and feel like ive lost heart. The journey is long and the cost hits my pocket hard leaving me with little left for the week once ive paid out for travel. im only entitled to a bit of help as ive asked assisted prison visits.
do people go through a patch of not wanting to go on visits? or has my feelings changed? Help please
i used to love going seeing him but lately i cant be bothered and feel like ive lost heart. The journey is long and the cost hits my pocket hard leaving me with little left for the week once ive paid out for travel. im only entitled to a bit of help as ive asked assisted prison visits.
do people go through a patch of not wanting to go on visits? or has my feelings changed? Help please
kaz- Posts : 6
Join date : 2009-02-23
Re: visits are getting me down
Hi Kaz, this is perfectly normal hun. I'm the same, I love seeing my better half but some months everything seems like such a drag, even getting dressed up and making my way there.
Not to mention that after twenty minutes, I've run out of things to say and end up counting how many cans of coke the vending machine has thrown out
Back on topic, no hun it's pretty normal to feel like this. (((((((hugs)))))))
Not to mention that after twenty minutes, I've run out of things to say and end up counting how many cans of coke the vending machine has thrown out
Back on topic, no hun it's pretty normal to feel like this. (((((((hugs)))))))
Morrigan- Posts : 33
Join date : 2009-02-22
Location : Manchester
Re: visits are getting me down
Yes the visits thing can get very tiring. It makes it worse because there is absolutely nothing to do in those visits room and the noise is horrendous where I go to.
It's pretty hard sat there for a few hours keeping the convo going. There's nothing much they can say because in there it's the same thing/different day.
When I feel like that, I usually skip a visit and look forward to the next one. We all have our own way of dealing with these things.
It's pretty hard sat there for a few hours keeping the convo going. There's nothing much they can say because in there it's the same thing/different day.
When I feel like that, I usually skip a visit and look forward to the next one. We all have our own way of dealing with these things.
Robyn_Levers- Admin
- Posts : 35
Join date : 2009-02-22
Age : 54
Location : North-West
Re: visits are getting me down
I love my visits and would never miss a week but I am only in to the first 12 months of this rollercoaster so I might experience this at a later date. who knows
PenJen- Posts : 27
Join date : 2009-02-23
Age : 55
Location : Wigan
Re: visits are getting me down
i love seeing Jay but sometimes I get a bit down about going visiting coz i hate it when i have to leave and it makes me feel very low. i used to go twice a month but i go once a month now and enjoy it more
tina34- Posts : 24
Join date : 2009-02-22
Age : 48
Location : Preston Lancashire
Re: visits are getting me down
I go once a year
Robyn_Levers- Admin
- Posts : 35
Join date : 2009-02-22
Age : 54
Location : North-West
Re: visits are getting me down
PMSL @ Robyn
Morrigan- Posts : 33
Join date : 2009-02-22
Location : Manchester
Re: visits are getting me down
thanks everyone for replying. lol @ Robyn and ill prob feel like that myself before this sentence is finish with lol
kaz- Posts : 6
Join date : 2009-02-23
Re: visits are getting me down
forgot to add that i feel loads better and just tryin to keep myself busy and live my life as best i can without him for a while. its the only way i can cope with it
kaz- Posts : 6
Join date : 2009-02-23
Re: visits are getting me down
Glad you feel better Kaz
Robyn_Levers- Admin
- Posts : 35
Join date : 2009-02-22
Age : 54
Location : North-West
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