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Post  kaz on Mon Feb 23, 2009 4:47 am

hi everyone. i feel a bit awkward saying this but my fella has been away now for just over 4 years.
i used to love going seeing him but lately i cant be bothered and feel like ive lost heart. The journey is long and the cost hits my pocket hard leaving me with little left for the week once ive paid out for travel. im only entitled to a bit of help as ive asked assisted prison visits.
do people go through a patch of not wanting to go on visits? or has my feelings changed? Help please

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Post  Morrigan on Mon Feb 23, 2009 5:13 am

Hi Kaz, this is perfectly normal hun. I'm the same, I love seeing my better half but some months everything seems like such a drag, even getting dressed up and making my way there. Shocked
Not to mention that after twenty minutes, I've run out of things to say and end up counting how many cans of coke the vending machine has thrown out Laughing
Back on topic, no hun it's pretty normal to feel like this. (((((((hugs))))))) I love you
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Post  Robyn_Levers on Mon Feb 23, 2009 6:25 am

Yes the visits thing can get very tiring. It makes it worse because there is absolutely nothing to do in those visits room and the noise is horrendous where I go to.
It's pretty hard sat there for a few hours keeping the convo going. There's nothing much they can say because in there it's the same thing/different day.
When I feel like that, I usually skip a visit and look forward to the next one. We all have our own way of dealing with these things.
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Post  PenJen on Mon Feb 23, 2009 8:55 am

I love my visits and would never miss a week but I am only in to the first 12 months of this rollercoaster so I might experience this at a later date. who knows scratch
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Post  tina34 on Tue Feb 24, 2009 1:22 am

i love seeing Jay but sometimes I get a bit down about going visiting coz i hate it when i have to leave and it makes me feel very low. i used to go twice a month but i go once a month now and enjoy it more Smile Very Happy Smile Very Happy
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Post  Robyn_Levers on Tue Feb 24, 2009 10:18 am

I go once a year Laughing
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Post  Morrigan on Tue Feb 24, 2009 11:34 am

PMSL @ Robyn
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Post  kaz on Thu Feb 26, 2009 10:09 am

thanks everyone for replying. lol @ Robyn and ill prob feel like that myself before this sentence is finish with lol

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Post  kaz on Thu Feb 26, 2009 10:10 am

forgot to add that i feel loads better and just tryin to keep myself busy and live my life as best i can without him for a while. its the only way i can cope with it

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Post  Robyn_Levers on Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:30 am

Glad you feel better Kaz Very Happy Smile Very Happy flower
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Post  Admin on Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:22 am

glad you're feeling better about everything hunni Very Happy Wink
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